Legal & Safety
The agreement you make by joining, how your information is handled, the rules that keep this place kind, and how to reach a real person when something's wrong.
The agreement
What you agree to when you create an account: who can join, what's allowed, and what each side is responsible for. The Safety Rules, the Cookie Policy and the Account Deletion Policy are part of it.
Read the Terms »
The community rules on harassment, unwanted contact, grooming, sexual exploitation and impersonation, and what happens when someone breaks them.
Read the Safety Rules »
Your information
What we collect, why, who can see it, who helps us run the site, how long things are kept, and your rights.
Read the Privacy Policy »
Every cookie and every bit of browser storage the site uses (only what it needs to work and to stay safe), and why there's no cookie banner.
Read the Cookie Policy »
How to delete your account, what disappears straight away (photos and messages included), and the few records that are kept.
Read the Account Deletion Policy »
Help and safety
Reach the person who runs the site, and report harassment, grooming, exploitation, impersonation or an account that may belong to someone under 18.
Contact or report »
Practical habits for getting to know people online: sharing at your own pace, spotting pressure, protecting your money, and meeting safely if you choose to.
Read the safety tips »
Our promises in plain words: no algorithm, no tracking, no pay-to-win. Not a legal document, but we mean every line.
Read the Constitution »